Saturday, November 5, 2011
Potential Romantic Partners
When I think about considering someone as a romantic partners, there are a ton of factors that come in to play. I think about my situation and theirs. I also think about the things we do and we do them. How we talk, is it sweet talk to eachother or flirt talk between us? I always think about another girls personality and how she acts when I'm around her, that determines whether or not I can stand or like that personality for the times coming. Another thing is how they speak and smile, that can tell me if a girl can talk politely and correctly. And then when they smile I can tell if they take care of there self and see if their mouth is clean, that shows me a lot about someone. I have eliminated someone by using a sociological and pre-interaction cue before, and it's something I won't consider doing again. I went off of pictures of them and how there body looked. And another thing I went off of is how she was texting me, I could kind of tell she was a little dumb by the way she was texting me.
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Haha. This was kind of entertaining to read. Clean mouth? You used pretty random, yet valid points here. I don't think I have ever chosen anyone the way you do but it sounds like something you have tested and found that works. You mentioned that you have based your decisions before off Sociological and preinteraction cues and then you said you went off a picture of them. I agree that you could used preinteraction cue here but not social. Social would require you to see how that person interacts socially not just base it off the picture. Picture tells you physical not social information.
ReplyDeleteI think it will be hard for you to never use any cues to filter people out again. It is a part of the way humans think and behave. It is a subconscious thing we do. I believe that we are all constantly filtering people that we come across in our lives. If someone passes all the filters, then there is no reason why we would not just start up a conversation with them. If I see someone that I want to meet and I want to be friends with, I make it happen. If you are too intimidated to do so, then you are still using a filter.
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