I do agree that men and women use language differently. Just by stating out the basics guys talk about girls all the time, and then more guys spread the word and somehow it usually ends up back to the girls being talked about. But for some reason it doesn't seem like the girls words get's spread around nearly as often or as quick. I don't know if it's just they can keep a secret and we can't, or they do not care to talk about guys the way guys do about girls.
Guys don't get butt hurt when they hear things girls say about them but girls always do. Then you have to turn your attitude around and kiss their a** to get back on their good side (if your lucky.) You can always tell when a girl is upset, you can hear it in their voice. And when they say their okay, it means there is something wrong. When they say there not upset, it means of course their upset. Guys will usually say exactly what's on their mind when their asked things, but girls don't. They will hide their true answer until we figure it out ourselves.
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Hahah that's pretty funny. Girls talk about guys don't worry, well at least my friends and I do, except we're pretty stealthy. Maybe that's the difference. :D I'm not exactly sure why girls do the whole bs "nothing's wrong" thing. When I have a problem, I try and fix it. Being straight up with people has way better results than beating around the bush. Men tend to solve problems through their actions, while woman tend to analyze and talk things out. I think thats why it might be difficult for them to find a common ground since they come from different angles. I know how men think, men keep things simple, while woman sometimes over analyze everything, especially when they let their emotions take control. But women need a little credit too, the only women I surround myself with are smart successful peopel who don't give in to bs and drama. Anyways, I think the best way for men and women to communicate with each other is to just be honest and do their best to see one another's perspectives. Otherwise it's not going to work out.
ReplyDeleteHi Loooney,
ReplyDeleteThere definitely are major differences. I think, though, that you can hear the tone in both male’s and female’s voices. The female is lass cheerful and sometimes condescending. The male’s voice is more monotone. It seems as though they have something to hide or a topic that they want to avoid. To a point, I agree with you; however, having a stereotype can create further problems. From what I have seen, males and female all help others by helping others conceal what their friends talk about. Others intentionally leak information for their own purposes. It’s hard to know which one it is.